I was multi-tasking this morning and mistakenly sent an incorrect email confirmation to you! I am sending you a make-up! A Pep Talk on how to identify a child in the goal of power.
Again I apologize for the mistake.
Deb
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Identify Power
Today's PEP Talk will give you some ideas for how to identify when your child is in the goal of power.
Identify power
When you feel: Provoked Challenged Threatened Defeated Then you know your child's goal is: Power
If you (the parent) react by: - fighting
- giving in
- thinking "You can't get away with it" or "I'll make you"
- wanting to be right
And the child's response is:
to intensify behavior defiant compliance feels she has won when parent is upset passive power
The mistaken belief behind the child's misbehavior is:
I belong only when I'm boss or in control, or proving no one can boss me. "You can't make me."
Please enjoy this PEP Talk and Happy Parenting!
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